JASON--My heart goes out to you and your family. Thank God you are alright!  I can not begin to imagine what you are going through.  Out prayers and thoughts are with you.  Do you have somewhere to stay.  Though I live clear out in Utah my door is open to you and your family if you need somewhere to stay---even if its just to get away from it all for a bit...that is a sincere offer if you need it PLESE contact me through pm.  Mike