It's all apart now! The wife got home from work and ........kidding! Soaking it all night with penetrating oil worked wonders. I had my kid stand on one end to keep it from moving and leveraged away I went.  It finally broke loose.  Took the right side most of the way off then went and did the same thing to the left.  What a pain! Note to self.....always loosen axle nuts before tearing swing arm off the bike! Would have been much easier. Thanks guys the support and comments. It is amazing how being ridiculed can make a guy work that much harder!